So, you’ve bought your first vibrating bullet? Would you like to know who to use it? Love Not War have put together our 5 top tips for how to get the most out of your bullet vibrator.
Just like our Maya vibrator, bullets are typically around 4 inches or less. They can be used for clitoral, anal, nipple, or perineum stimulation either on your own during masturbation, or with a partner. Bullet vibrators are also great for beginners as their vibration modes can vary from low to intense, offering deep rumbling vibrations for huge orgasms and pleasure. So, whether you’re looking to buy your very first sex toy or you’re wanting to add to your collection and spice things up in the bedroom, we think you should consider investing in a bullet vibrator.
1) Try the vibrating bullet on your own
Bullet vibrators aren’t made with just the clit in mind! During masturbation, a bullet can be used to stimulate any and all erogenous zones. You can use a low vibration to tease your nipples, vulva, and labia before moving to your clitoris. You can even rest the sex toy on your genitals to free up your hands, allowing you to read some erotica.
2) Take your time!
There’s no need to rush to the finish line. In fact, there isn’t even a finish line in sight! Sex, whether solo or partnered doesn’t have to have a set agenda, it’s all about enjoyment. Having a time limit or pressure for an end point could actually hinder your ability to climax. Orgasms are generally better when you’re relaxed, so take things slow, wind down, and relax. Get to know not only your new vibrator but your body too.
3) Don’t stick to one speed or pattern
All Love Not War toys offer four intensity settings and seven vibration patterns, so we think you should get to know them all. How else are you going to know your favourite setting? You may find you like different settings for different parts of your body, but there’s only one way to find out. After all, everyone’s body is unique!
4) Lube up
There’s a lot of misconceptions around lube. Some people assume that vulva owners shouldn’t need lube as they should be able to lubricate themselves naturally. However this is not always the case, lube is a great tool for anyone to help maximise the fun and the pleasure. There are so many different lubes available (we even have a blog about it) so it’s good to test different products to make sure you’re using the right lube for you and your toy. Lubes are also recommended by sex toy manufacturers in order to prolong the device’s lifespan.
Love. Not War Vibrator heads are all made with NeoSilicone, which is the world’s first silicone which is compatible with silicone lubes. Silicone lubes are longer lasting, more slippery, hypoallergenic and odourless in comparison to water-based lubes. You can use either a silicone-based or water-based lube with your Love. Not War Vibrator.
5) Try temperature play
Made from 99% recycled aluminium, Maya is perfect for temperature play. It can be submerged in warm water to stimulate the senses or can be kept in the freezer to mimic an ice cube. This could be another fun way to introduce a bullet vibrator to the bedroom! All Love. Not War toys are fully waterproof, so long baths, quick showers and naughty lake days are approved.
